Updates: A Response from “Sex Advice #1” and the Latest on “Sexual Harassment in the Workplace”

There have been quite a few things happening, so everything will be jumbled into one post, so here we go…

After my last post about my co-worker harassing me, a few days after I arrived back from visit my family, I went straight to HR and complained that nothing was really being done about the situation, and they ended up talking strict measures on that co-worker, which resulted into her termination. I guess they had heard wind that I was planning on suing the company if they didn’t fire her, so they decided to let her go, which was a good choice indeed. Work feels a lot easier to be in now that she’s gone, but now I will have to deal with trying to build up my reputation as a professional, since the damage has already been done. Although no one has really done anything bad to me since I got bad, for some reason I get this strange feeling that people see me differently, like in a bad way, now that they know about those pictures. It doesn’t faze me, however it makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable, but what else can I do? Just as long as they don’t bully me because of those photos, I should be fine. Now, I’m focused on whether I should sue my former co-worker for bringing those photos in the workplace to begin with, but I don’t really know where to start…does anyone know?

This week, I also received an e-mail from Ashley, our loyal reader who needed sex advice, and this is her response:

Dear Veronica,

I just wanted to thank you so much for your advice. I'm happy to report that just sitting down and talking to him about our sex life has improved it greatly. I gave him two different books that I thought would help us out as well. One was sex and foreplay positions, and one was sex games. He seems to like to take control more often now that our sex life has improved. He also goes down on me almost every time we have sex and lately he makes me orgasm about 4/5 times. I am much more satisfied now, we only have sex without my having an orgasm about once out of nine or ten times. And all of this is thanks to you and I definitely appreciate it.

I read your last post and wanted to say I'm so sorry you have to go through that. Frankly, your coworker is a horrendous bitch.

-Ashley

I’m glad that the advice worked out! Please don’t hesitate to e-mail again for more sex advice!!

I will be adding a new post about my recent sexcapade…until tomorrow!! :-)