Clit Bangers

It seems as if my "Cunnilingus Craving" commentary has created a bit of a buzz amongst my readers. I've been getting fan e-mails about it, I've gotten into discussions about it...it's been crazy as to how much it's gotten some kind of attention around here.

I received an e-mail with a pretty good question that I felt should receive a more thorough answer:

"What makes a guy good at eating out?"

It's a simple, but a straight-to-the point question. And I replied:

1. They are observant as to what turns us on, not to what they think turns us on.

2. They take their time.

3. They find other spots that get us off besides our clit and our pussy

4. They are willing to learn and accept that some things may or may not get us off.

I think this list definitely hits home. In my personal opinion, I find that a lot of men who are "average pussy eaters" and not "expert pussy eaters" think that women get off the same way that men get off, hard and fast. But don't you think that because we're WOMEN (and from Venus) that we'd react differently??

Unfortunately, men seem to believe that by getting us off quickly, we'd enjoy the relief. But really?? We're not "Clit Bangers"!! We don't jerk off quickly, "hit it and quit it" with the clit, those things take time! Why would you men think that that's a way a clit is supposed to be treated? A clit is the equivalent to a penis, but that doesn't mean that it should be treated the same way.

Men, please understand that the clit is kind of a cross between a snowflake and a good steak - a snowflake, mainly because it's delicate, and if you hold it for too long it melts away; and a good steak, mainly because if you carve it the wrong way, you won't enjoy it the way it was intended.

So please, DO NOT - I repeat - DOOO NOOOTTTT - skip those 4 tips I mentioned above and really pay attention to us when you're down there. All women are created differently, so please try to please us the way we want to be pleased!

Until then, practice makes perfect!